PREACHING AND PRACTICING REPENTANCE

By

Shelby G. Floyd

 

 

Some preacher has said, “If I should die while in the pulpit, may I die preaching repentance and if I should die outside of the pulpit, may I die practicing repentance.” What do we need in our world today any more than the preaching and the practicing of repentance? Sin makes the preaching of repentance necessary and since sin is universal in its nature, the preaching and practice of repentance must likewise be universal. Scripture says, “All have sinned and come short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23).

 

THE IMPORTANCE OF PREACHING REPENTANCE

 

I want to emphasize in the first place the importance of preaching repentance. In what we style “preaching,” there must be one all-engrossing topic in every address, and if you will observe the preaching of John the Baptist, Jesus Christ, the twelve apostles and the seventy that were sent out, on almost every occasion and in almost every instance the burden of their proclamations were that men ought to repent. Noah was a preacher of righteousness. It seems likely that he may have preached for about 120 years before the flood, but he was not very successful in bringing that antediluvian world to repentance, because it seems that the only people that listened to him were his family. Eight souls were saved by water (1 Peter 3:20-21).  All the rest, though they heard much preaching on repentance, did not repent and they perished.

 

     Repentance is the most difficult thing to get people to do, because it involves man’s stubborn pride and man’s stubborn will. I believe it’s, relatively easy, to get people to believe. You present the adequate evidence that upholds the testimony of Jesus and the inspired apostles, you present that fairly and most people who are honest and sensible will believe the facts. Also, it is not too difficult to get people to be baptized, if you can get them to believe and repent. If a person will genuinely believe and then genuinely repent, it’s not hard to get people to be baptized. The difficulty is in getting people to repent. John the Baptist preached repentance to Herod, but did Herod repent? No, he did not. He continued in his evil ways. Jesus failed to bring people to repentance and He was the Son of God, the greatest preacher that ever lived. He went up and spent a lot of time around the Galilean Lake preaching repentance:

 

Matthew 11:20-24

Then he began to denounce the cities where most of his mighty works had been done, because they did not repent. "Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the mighty works done in you had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes. But I tell you, it will be more bearable on the day of judgment for Tyre and Sidon than for you. And you, Capernaum, will you be exalted to heaven? You will be brought down to Hades. For if the mighty works done in you had been done in Sodom, it would have remained until this day. But I tell you that it will be more tolerable on the day of judgment for the land of Sodom than for you.”Cross references:

Matthew 11:20 : Psalm 81:11-13; Isa 1:2-5

Matthew 11:21 : For Matthew 11:21-24, Luke 10:12-15

Matthew 11:21 : Matthew 15:21; Mark 3:8; Isa 23; Ezek 28:2-24; Amos 1:9, 10

Matthew 11:22 : Luke 12:47, 48

Matthew 11:22 : Acts 17:31

Matthew 11:22 : Matthew 11:21

Matthew 11:23 : Isa 14:13-15

Matthew 11:23 : Matthew 16:18 (Gk); Luke 16:23; Acts 2:27

Matthew 11:24 : Matthew 11:22

Matthew 11:24 : Matthew 10:15

Matthew 11:24 : Matthew 11:22

 

 

Jesus couldn’t get these people who lived around the Galilean Lake to repent and He pronounced His woe upon them. So we shouldn’t be discouraged, we shouldn’t give up all hope when we do our very best and we preach, urge, and proclaim that men ought to repent. To bring men to repentance is difficult, but it is necessary and the great preachers in times past and the ones today that are worth their salt will go right on preaching repentance even when men do not repent.

 

     I will point out to you how they did that.  How did John the Baptist preach repentance?  “In those days John the Baptist came preaching in the wilderness of Judea, and saying, “‘Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand’” (Matthew 3:1-2)! Then a little later in that chapter, he said to the people who came out to him to be baptized but who had not repented,  “But when he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees coming to his baptism, he said to them, ‘Brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the wrath to come?’ Therefore bear fruits worthy of repentance, and do not think to say to yourselves, 'We have Abraham as our father.' For I say to you that God is able to raise up children to Abraham from these stones” (Matthew 3:7-9).

 

     When Jesus started His earthly ministry, the first thing he said was, “Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand” (Matthew 4:17). It is noteworthy that the first thing that Jesus said and the last thing that He said before He went back to heaven was that men ought to repent. “Thus it is written, and thus it behooved Christ to suffer, and rise from the dead the third day: and that repentance and remission of sins should be preached in His name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem” (Luke 24:46-47). So the first thing He said and the last thing He said was that men ought to repent. Peter on the day of Pentecost near the conclusion of his sermon said, “Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost” (Acts 2:38). And in his second sermon in Solomon’s Portico, Peter said, “Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord” (Acts 3:19). When the great apostle Paul came down to Athens, one of the two principle cities of Greece (Athens and Corinth were called the “eyes of all Greece”), he stood upon Mars Hill, and had an audience of people that came out daily to hear and tell something new.  He said, “Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent, because He has appointed a day on which He will judge the world in righteousness by the Man whom He has ordained. He has given assurance of this to all by raising Him from the dead” (Acts 17:30-31). And then finally the apostle Peter said, “The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9).  So God wants everybody to repent. He doesn’t want anybody to be lost or to perish. This demonstrates that it is very important to preach repentance! Jonah way back in the Old Testament said, “Repent, for in forty days Nineveh shall be overthrown.” From Jonah to Jesus, and from John the Baptist to John the apostle, they all taught the same message, “repent or perish!”

 

WHAT REPENTANCE IS NOT!

 

What does it mean to repent? I feel we use that term and often we don’t even know what is meant by the term “repent.” First, I shall point out to you in a negative sense what repentance is not. I believe that you will be able to get a better grasp of what it is if you can see what it is not.

 

Not Sorrow

 

Is repentance sorrow? Repentance involves sorrow, but there can be sorrow without repentance. All genuine repentance involves sorrow, but not all sorrow involves genuine repentance. We’ve all seen people respond to the gospel message, shedding tears, confessing sin and then never see them again for several months. I question the genuineness, the sincerity of any repentance although it involves sorrow, regret, remorse, and tears, when there is not a change in a person’s life. All genuine repentance involves sorrow, but not all sorrow involves repentance. So I am pointing out to you what repentance is not. It’s not just sorrow. If that’s all it is, it doesn’t amount to anything, because there can be sorrow without genuine repentance.

 

     Do you remember when Herod had a birthday party? You need to be careful when you have birthday parties. You might do something that you shouldn’t do. Herod had a birthday party and the daughter of Herodius came in and danced before him and he made a rash promise. He liked what he saw so much he said, “I’ll give you up to half the kingdom.” She went and did what is ordinarily a good thing for a daughter to do; she went and consulted with her mother. Daughters and mothers ought to be close, but when you’ve got as sorry an excuse for a mother as Salome had in Herodius, she would have been better off if she had confided in someone else. She went to her mother and her mother said, “I hate that preacher John the Baptist.” She was just like Ahab in the Old Testament in what he said, “I like to hear the false prophets; they tell me what I want to hear. I hate that Micaiah because he never prophesies any good for me. He only tells me things that I don’t want to hear. I hate him” (1 Kings 22:8). That’s basically the way Herodius was. She said, “Go tell him you want the head of John the Baptist on a plate.” She did so and the Bible says in Mark 6:20 that “Herod was exceedingly sorrowful.” Not just sorrowful, but the comparative adjective here shows how much he was sorry, “exceedingly sorrowful.” And even though he was exceedingly sorrowful, his exceeding sorrow did not move him to repent, because he went right ahead and beheaded John the Baptist and did what was wrong. So, a person can be exceedingly sorrowful, full of remorse and regret, and not repent. Every inmate down at the jail or in some of the prisons is usually a person that is very sorry. You talk to them and ask them if they are sorry and they’ll say they are very sorry, but how many times do we hear these people after they are released go right out and do the same thing that put them there in the first place. Yes, they’re very sorry, sorry they got caught, sorry they’re suffering for their crimes, sorry for a hundred million different things, but not sorry that they have offended God and the laws of man and the laws of morality, the laws of kindness and a hundred million other laws. Yes, you can be very sorry and yet not repent. And Herod Antipas is the finest example of a person who can be sorry and not repent.

 

Not Sorrow and Confession

 

In the next place, a person can even have sorrow and make a confession and not repent. In every genuine case of repentance, there will be sorrow and a confession, but not every example of sorrow and confession involves repentance. Judas Iscariot was one of the twelve and we should not be alarmed and we should not be discouraged if in every congregation there are one or more people who act like Judas. After all, Jesus the Son of God selected these men and one of them was a Judas, so we shouldn’t be greatly surprised today if in every congregation there is a Judas. Judas had the same privileges, opportunities, and advantages that all the other apostles had. Jesus didn’t make any difference between them. He treated Judas the same way He treated all of them and that is honest, forthright, openly, and fair. But Judas had a devil inside of him and he sold the Lord out for some measly money:

 

Matthew 27:3-4

When Judas, who had betrayed him, saw that Jesus was condemned, he was seized with remorse and returned the thirty silver coins to the chief priests and the elders. "I have sinned," he said, "for I have betrayed innocent blood." "What is that to us?" they replied. "That's your responsibility."

NIV

 

I’ve always had a little bit of trouble with that verse in the old translation. I used to think that meant that when Judas saw that he himself was condemned he repented, but now I take the position that when Judas saw that Christ was condemned and that He was actually going to be put to death, he repented of what he had done. And the Bible says that he brought his blood money and he cast it down in the temple treasury and he said, “Take this money back, I don’t want it. I have betrayed innocent blood.” You couldn’t find a better confession than that anywhere. He was sorry. The Bible says he repented and he made a confession, “I have betrayed innocent blood.” And they said they didn’t want the money. They were sinners, too, those unscrupulous Pharisees and Sadducees. They had bargained and given the money to betray Jesus and when he gives it back they say they can’t put it in the treasury; its blood money, so they took it out and bought a graveyard for the poor people and criminals. The Field of Blood was called Aceldama (Acts 1:19). Do you know that there is actually only about a dozen people in the entire Bible who ever had the courage to stand up and say, “I have sinned?” That is one of the hardest things in the world to do, to stand up before the people and say, “I have sinned.” And out of that dozen people, probably only half a dozen actually meant it. I’ll just use Saul and David for example. David said over and over again, “I have sinned,” and he meant it, but his predecessor, Saul, the first King of Israel, said almost as many times as David did, “I have sinned,” and he didn’t mean it. He made a confession and said he had sinned, but he didn’t repent, because he kept right on doing the wrong thing. David said, “I have sinned” and he quit doing the wrong thing. One repented and one didn’t, but the point I make here is there can be sorrow and there can be a confession and still not be any genuine repentance.

 

Not Godly Sorrow

 

In the next place, is repentance godly sorrow?  In the strictest sense, even godly sorrow is not repentance. Paul said, “Godly sorrow works repentance not to be repented of” (2 Corinthians 7:8-11).  So repentance is not godly sorrow. Godly sorrow produces repentance. It’s the difference between cause and affect. What is repentance? We haven’t identified it yet, but I can tell you that godly sorrow produces it. Therefore, in the two previous examples that I have given, sorrow is involved in repentance, but not all sorrow involves repentance.  The sorrow of the world works death, but godly sorrow produces repentance, so even godly sorrow is not repentance. It is what produces repentance. It is the cause and repentance is the effect.

 

Not Reformation of Life

 

Is repentance reformation of life? In Matthew 3:7-8, John the Baptist said to those people that came out to him, “Bring forth fruits worthy of repentance.” Is that repentance? No. Just as godly sorrow is the cause of repentance, reformation of life is the result of repentance, the fruit of repentance is a change of life. So with genuine repentance there will be a change of life, a reformation of life. The fruit will bear out that a person has genuinely repented. But it is not repentance. It is the effect of repentance.

 

Not Restitution For Wrong

 

Is repentance restitution? The Philippians’ jailer in Acts 16 beat Paul and Silas, cast them into the inner prison and put their hands and feet fast in the stocks. At midnight there was a great earthquake. The jailer called for a light. He sprang in trembling. He cried out, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” They told him, “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and thou shall be saved and all your house.” The Bible tells us that he took them into his house, he washed their stripes, put medicine no doubt on their backs, he set food on the table and fed them. How do I know he really repented? Because he was trying to undo as far as he possibly could the effects of his sin and his wrongdoing on these men. He couldn’t go back and undo the stripes that he had put on their backs, but he could wash them and make them feel better. He couldn’t undo the way he had evilly treated these men, but he could after he had repented feed them and treat them kindly and courteously. In every case of genuine repentance, there will be restitution or a restoration as far as humanly possible. I am glad to see that some of the judges of the courts of our land today are making people that do wrong like stealing, go out and work and pay back what they have stolen. That’s the right thing to do. If a person is really sorry for the wrong he has done, he is going to try to make it right. I was in college with a man and he told me back when he was a young man he and a bunch of boys were around a Coca-Cola machine and didn’t have any money. They kicked that thing real hard and all of sudden it started spitting out cokes and they were grabbing them and stacking them in a box. Later he became a preacher and he told me what he did. He said he sat down one day and he wrote a letter and he sent a check to that company telling them what he had done and he wanted to repay them for all those cokes he had taken without paying for them. I thought that was a good example of a person who had genuine repentance for something that had happened way back in his life and he was trying to make it right as far as he possibly could. So restitution, like reformation of life, is not repentance. It’s what follows repentance and shows that repentance is really true.

 

     We’ve pointed out what repentance is not. You can have sorrow and not have repentance. You can have sorrow and confession and not have repentance. You can have Godly sorrow and that’s necessary, but that’s not repentance. You can have reformation of life and you should have if you repented, but that’s not repentance. That’s what follows it. You can have restitution in your life for sin and that follows repentance, but it’s not repentance itself.

 

WHAT IS REPENTANCE?

 

Well, what is repentance? Let me give you an example in a story that Jesus related, “A certain man had two Sons and he said to the first son, ‘Son, go work in my vineyard today,’ and his son said, “I will not” (Matthew 12:41). Someone was telling me this week of a Dad that loved his children, but a few years ago his wife didn’t want to be with him any longer and she divorced him and took up with other men, but she got the two boys. This Dad hardly ever sees his children. He loves them and wants to be with them, but he doesn’t get an opportunity very much and recently he had those two boys with him and, as I was told, he was working around his house and he told one of the boys to go get him something and he said, “I will not. I don’t have to do what you tell me to do.” And as I hear he’s a pretty good-sized boy, but the father disciplined him. Later he wrote him a letter that if he didn’t want to respect him as his dad then, he really didn’t care whether he was with him or not. That would hurt you to have to do that, but the point I’m trying to make here is that all of us who have been fathers at some time or another have had children that have told us in one way or another that they weren’t going to do what we asked them to do. I still subscribe to the old policy that when a child is young and you tell them to do something and they start saying why, simply reply, “Because I said so.” I think that’s a good place to start. If you don’t respect your dad just because he said so when you’re young, you won’t respect him when you’re older if he gives you a hundred reasons why you ought to do something. Of course, as a child gets older you’ve got to explain to them why they should do this and that. But this father had two sons and he said to the first, “Go work in my vineyard today” and the young man said, “I will not.” But the Bible says that later on he went and did what his father told him to do. He went to his other son and said, “Son, go work in my vineyard today” and he said, “I will.” But he didn’t do it. The Bible says he repented himself and did it not. Again, this demonstrates that your parents can ask you to do something and you’ll say you’ll do it, but never do it. What good is that answer, “Yes, I’ll do it” and then not do it? It’s a lie. So in this case, the boy that was stubborn and said he wouldn’t, but later repented and did was a better boy that the boy that said he would and did not. So parents when you look at your children, what you really have to look at are the results. Jesus asked them, “Which one of these repented? Which one of these did the will of his father?” Well, they were smart people, and said, “The first of course, he’s the one that did the will of his father.” And then Jesus in Matthew 12 said, “Out of your own mouth you have condemned yourselves. You claim to be religious and I come out here preaching and you say “I will, I will,” yet you do not. I tell you the publicans and the harlots are going to go into the kingdom of God before you because they come along and say “I will not” and they change and they do. Isn’t that strange? Isn’t that ironic? Publicans, tax collectors and harlots were going to enter the kingdom of God before the religious people. That may be true in the church. There may be some out here in the world that are going to get to heaven before some in the church that keep saying, ‘I will, I will, I will’ and do not. Maybe some of them that said, ‘I will not’ will change their minds and do. So repentance is a change from saying, “I will not” to “I will.” And if you say, “I will” and you do not, then you need to start saying, “I will do the Father’s will.” Say it and mean it!

 

Regret and Repent

 

Now let’s look at another way in which we can find out what it means to really repent. Look at the text that was read to us. The King James translation is unfortunate here in that it confuses two Greek words and translates them by the same term. Those two words are metamelami and metaneo.” Metamelami means regret, sorrow, and remorse. And I make a proposition here, and challenge anybody to show me any different, never in any of the communications of Jesus, the twelve, or anybody else who went out preaching the gospel did they command people to repent using metamelami. It’s never found in any of the gospel commands contingent upon forgiveness of sins. It’s never found. Men are not commanded to repent metamelami. But when men are commanded to repent and be baptized, repent and be converted, repent and be forgiven, it’s always, metaneo. Now we have in the Bible these two words used in the same context so we can see the difference (2 Corinthians 7:8-12). I will give you the background here. Paul wrote a very hard letter to the Corinthian church, which is the 1 Corinthian letter. It was a stinging rebuke for all of theirs sins and evil that they were doing as a church. Now he has received word back from one of his messengers as to how they have received the first letter. Notice what he says here when he gets down and writes the second letter to them, “Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not repent,” which is the King James translation. The NIV translation is “I do not regret it.” Regret is right. It’s metamelami. Paul wrote the Corinthians a letter, 1 Corinthians, and when he got word back he found out they were full of sorrow. He doesn’t tell us what kind of sorrow it is, but I think we find out a little bit later. He says, “Even if I caused you sorrow by my letter, I do not regret it.” What he’s really saying is if I had it to do over again, I would write the same letter to you again. It made you sorry and, he says, “I don’t regret it,” though I did regret it. Have you ever done something that you had to do and right after you did it, it really hurt you? You regretted that you had to do it. But later on when you saw the good results of what you had done, you changed your mind and said you no longer regretted it. You regretted it at first, but now you don’t regret it. Well, that’s exactly what Paul is saying here. “I wrote you a letter, it was a hard letter, it made you full of sorrow, and when I heard how that sorrow changed your life from the bad to the good, from the worse to the better, then I changed my mind and I don’t regret what I have done.” He says, “I see that my letter hurt you, but only for a little while, yet now I am happy, not because you were sorry.” Nobody is happy when they see people full of sorrow, full of tears, full of remorse. He said, “I’m not happy because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance.” And here the word is metaneo. He’s happy not that they were made sorry, but that their sorrow led them to repentance and we’re trying to find out what repentance is. “For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us.” Then in verse 10 Paul declares, “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.” See what this Godly sorrow has produced in you—what earnestness, what eagerness to clear yourselves, what indignation, what alarm, what longing, what concern, what readiness to see justice done?

 

     I pointed out to you that you can have sorrow and you can have regret. Judas repented in the sense of metamelami—regret, remorse. But Judas did not repent metaneo. What does it mean? In repentance, metaneo, there will be regret, remorse, sorrow, but in a person’s life that doesn’t repent there may be sorrow, remorse and regret. What’s the difference? Here’s the basic difference—if your sorrow, if your regret, if your remorse is not strong enough that it goes right down into your innermost being and causes you to be sorry that you have offended God, that you have broken His will, that you have made Him unhappy, that you’re not living up to your potential as a human being made in the image of God, then that kind of sorrow will not cause you to change your life and, therefore, you haven’t repented.  Judas was full of repentance. And Esau was full of repentance. The book of Hebrews says “Esau found no place for repentance, though he sought it bitterly with tears.” He couldn’t find a place for his father to change his mind. That’s what it’s talking about there. His father had already pronounced the blessing upon his brother. He wanted him to change his mind. His father couldn’t change his mind and he sought it with tears, but it didn’t do any good. So repentance, in a nutshell, is a change of the mind. Faith is the beginning point, but unless our faith becomes strong enough to fill us with godly sorrow, regret and remorse, and unless that regret, remorse and sorrow is strong enough that it changes man’s stubborn willpower and then in turn changes his life, a person hasn’t repented. “Godly sorrow works repentance, not to be regretted, but the sorrow of the world works death.”

 

     What is repentance? A person is going in the wrong direction saying, “I will not,” like the older son and then he repents, he turns around 180 degrees and goes back in a different direction. A person is living an evil life and they say, “I repent,” and they turn around and start living a different life. A person is living a sinful life and they say, “I repent,” and they start living a life of righteousness. We can apply this to the members of the church, too. It’s not just alien sinners. What was the problem with the seven churches of Asia when Jesus wrote letters to each one of them? What was wrong with the church at Ephesus? He said, “Repent and do the first works or else I will come and remove the candlestick from out of your midst.” Yes, repentance involves godly sorrow. Godly sorrow produces repentance. Repentance leads to a change in life, doing the first works. We have two problems in the church today. We have people who sometimes say, “I am sorry that I have sinned”, but they don’t mean it because we don’t see a change in their life. We have people who walk down to the front and make a confession, and we’ve all seen it, and not even come back for another service. That’s a joke, a travesty, and a farce. Not a word of truth in it. Question any sorrow and tears, though they shed like a crocodile, when there is not a change in life. And then we have people in the church and they walk around and they’re not living right, they’re not serving Christ, and they are smug about it, as if they’re the best person to ever walk on the face of the earth, they’re doing what’s right, they’re going to heaven, and all the time their practice shows that their smugness belies their earnestness. In the text that was read, we read, “For behold this selfsame thing, that ye sorrowed after a godly sort, what carefulness it wrought in you, yea, what clearing of yourselves, yea, what indignation, yea, what fear, yea, what vehement desire, yea, what zeal, yea, what revenge! In all things ye have approved yourselves to be clear in this matter” (2 Corinthians 7:11).  When people repent, you’re going to see earnestness, zeal, indignation and a change in life. You’re going to see all of those things, because that’s the fruit of repentance. Church, we need to repent of the things we are doing that’s not right, change our minds about it, because we are truly full of godly sorrow and then change our life, reform and do the first works. Jesus said, “Repent or ye shall all perish” (Luke 13:3-5).  Don’t perish. God doesn’t want anybody to perish. He wants everybody to come to repentance and be saved while together we stand and sing. * Copyright © 2011 Shelby G. Floyd, All Rights Reserved

 

*Shelby G. Floyd delivered this sermon Sunday October 22, 2000 at the Heartland Church of Christ, 1693 West Main Street, Greenwood, Indiana.

 

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